Before Patsy Cline sang her way into jukeboxes, before Loretta Lynn wrote about being a coal miner’s daughter, and before Dolly and Tammy ruled the charts, there was Kitty Wells, the woman who walked into a man’s world and refused to leave quietly.

Born Ellen Muriel Deason in Nashville on August 30, 1919, Kitty didn’t grow up with doors wide open. She was raised in a working-class family where music was a pastime, not a career path. Her dad played banjo, her mom sang gospel, and Kitty learned guitar as a kid. By the time she hit her teens, she was performing on local radio stations and carving out a place where few women even dared to stand.

At just 18, she married fellow country singer Johnnie Wright. Their marriage lasted an unbelievable 74 years, and together they toured with Johnnie and Jack’s band. Kitty played the role of the “girl singer,” but truth be told, she almost hung up the microphone entirely in the early 1950s. She was ready to focus on raising her family until one record changed everything, not just for her but for every woman who would ever dream of a country stage.

That record was “It Wasn’t God Who Made Honky Tonk Angels.” Decca Records tossed the song her way in 1952, almost as filler. Nobody expected much, but Kitty turned it into dynamite. The song was written as an answer to Hank Thompson’s “The Wild Side of Life,” which blamed women for leading men astray. Kitty fired back with a version that flipped the blame and told the truth: it wasn’t always the women who wrecked homes. Nashville tried to shut it down. The Grand Ole Opry and the NBC radio network banned it at first, calling it too controversial. However, America didn’t listen to the gatekeepers; they listened to Kitty.

The single hit No. 1 and sat there for six straight weeks. She became the first woman in history to top the country charts, and the song sold nearly a million copies in its first year. Just like that, Kitty Wells proved women could sell records, pack venues, and change the entire narrative of country music.

From there, she never looked back. “Making Believe,” “Heartbreak U.S.A.,” and “Release Me” became staples, sung in that voice that carried both tenderness and steel. Other singers covered her hits, but fans always came back to Kitty. She wasn’t a flash in the pan; she was the real deal, and she stayed true to herself when the industry would have been happy to keep her quiet.

Her reign in the 1950s and 1960s paved the way for Loretta Lynn to write “The Pill,” for Tammy Wynette to sing “Stand By Your Man,” and for Dolly Parton to run the whole table. Without Kitty, none of them would have had the same runway. She was the one who proved women weren’t just supporting acts, they were headliners.

Kitty Wells never stopped performing. She toured the world with Johnnie Wright, taking her music to fans everywhere right up until her later years. Honors poured in: induction into the Country Music Hall of Fame in 1976 and a Grammy Lifetime Achievement Award in 1991. Yet awards only tell part of the story. Her real legacy lives in every woman who stands on a stage and sings her truth.

When Kitty passed in 2012 at 92 years old, country music didn’t just lose a voice, it lost its first queen. She wasn’t flashy, she wasn’t chasing trends, and she sure as hell wasn’t afraid to stir the pot. She lit the fire and kept it burning for the women who came after. Kitty Wells proved once and for all that country music wasn’t just for men; it was for anybody brave enough to tell it like it is.