A wedding guest is in shock after getting uninvited to a destination wedding they already spent over $1,000 on to attend.

On Reddit, the scorned wedding guest, whose friend is getting married in Asia, shared they live in North America and were invited to the ceremony roughly a year ago.

However, despite having already booked their flights, they received a message informing them they are no longer invited.

“Hey guys, I’m so sorry to tell you this but I don’t have any accommodation left for y’all for the wedding. I sincerely apologize. I hope y’all haven’t booked tickets yet,” the bride-to-be sent in a group message.

The confused guest reached out to the bride, writing, “Hey, I literally just booked my tickets and everything like three days ago ’cause our agent knew and found something … I’m gonna try to cancel but I don’t think I can.”

In response, the bride told the guest her wedding hotel staff isn’t “budging on accommodations,” but she could possibly “figure something out” if they are unable to get a refund for their airline tickets.

Feeling “icky” about the entire situation, especially after the bride-to-be asked them not to tell anyone about her possibly helping them out, the guest is now unsure of what to do.

“I am feeling so embarrassed because I already told my friends and family I was invited to a destination wedding and to tell people I was uninvited is so embarrassing. I was super excited about this and really happy for her,” they concluded.