Brooks and Dunn Admit They Struggled to Get Along for Years and Tried to Blow It Real Hard
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Brooks and Dunn Admit They Struggled to Get Along for Years and Tried to Blow It Real Hard

Country music’s greatest duo was basically a bar fight waiting to happen.

When Brooks & Dunn stormed out of the gate with “Brand New Man” in 1991, it looked like lightning in a bottle. But behind those big belt buckles and honky-tonk anthems was a pair of stubborn, solo-minded cowboys who, by their own admission, were more likely to choke each other out than ride off into the neon sunset together. Turns out this match made in Nashville was arranged like a shotgun wedding, and Ronnie Dunn and Kix Brooks tried their damnedest to blow it all up more than once.

Kix didn’t mince words recently when he called it a NASCAR wreck on repeat. “We had absolutely nothing in common,” he said. Two dudes from completely different sides of the honky-tonk tracks thrown together by a music exec with a hunch. Ronnie was the church singer with a preacher’s rasp and a knack for heartbreak songs. Kix was the cowboy showman, equal parts swagger and smile. On paper, they looked like a country Frankenstein. Onstage, they found out pretty quick they were magic, but magic that came with sparks and bruises.

Ronnie admitted it was awkward from day one. They didn’t even know who’d take the mic. Two big egos, no plan. “You start at that level, you don’t even know who’s gonna be the lead singer,” he said. “It was awkward. I don’t know that we ever had that discussion.” Pretty wild, considering they banged out “Brand New Man” and “Next Broken Heart” in a weekend, songs that slapped so hard they’d carry them through the next three decades.

But behind the scenes, it was never exactly a back-patting lovefest. They’d ride high with back-to-back #1 hits, then stand in the bus parking lot ready to quit. Kix says the constant “ebb and flow” felt like whiplash. One minute they’re beating up bar gigs as nobodies, the next they’re topping charts, wondering what the hell they’re doing different. The truth? It was that nervous energy, that weird tension that kept their fire alive even when they were sick to death of each other.

Their 2009 split felt inevitable to anyone who’d watched that tension simmer for twenty years. They didn’t fake a tearful farewell tour for the cameras. They shut it down cold. They called it quits and meant it. But legends don’t stay apart forever when the songs still hit. Reba McEntire practically dragged them back together for that Vegas residency, and somehow, a couple of shows turned into a full-blown second act. “She drug us into Vegas,” Kix said, laughing, like a kid caught with a hand in the cookie jar. “And we’re doing a two-and-a-half-hour show just shooting the bull and singing the songs.”

They could’ve left it at that, a comfy nostalgia gig cashing in on the old hits. But then they went and made Reboot, pulling in fresh faces like Luke Combs and Kacey Musgraves. Turns out TikTok kids dig a little Brooks & Dunn too. Not bad for a pair of guys who once tried to crash their own gravy train.

Ronnie summed it up the only way a country singer can: “We tried to blow it real hard.” Damn right they did. And that’s what makes them legends. Not just the hits, but the fact that they survived each other. You can feel every mile of dirt and daisies in those harmonies. You can hear every bar fight and make-up hug in that steel guitar. You know they’ve still got that spark, that edge that kept them alive when they were dead set on burning it down.

Most duos would’ve let the wreck win. Brooks & Dunn turned it into a road map. They’re still out there, boots planted, hat brims low, singing the songs that made folks fall in love, fall apart, and get back together all over again. Some things in country music just don’t break, no matter how hard you try to blow it.