She saw the light at the end of the tunnel, and it was neon, so she knew it was hers.

Jeannie Seely, the firebrand known to generations of fans as “Miss Country Soul,” passed away Friday at age 85 after complications from an intestinal infection. A Grammy winner, Grand Ole Opry staple, and fearless force in country music for six decades, Seely wasn’t just part of the fabric of Nashville. She helped stitch it together with rhinestones, grit, and a hell of a lot of heart.

Born on a Pennsylvania farm in 1940, Seely’s story was anything but small-town. She cut her teeth singing on local radio, then packed her bags for Los Angeles, took a job as a secretary at a record label, and quietly started writing her way into the industry. She co-wrote “Anyone Who Knows What Love Is (Will Understand),” which Irma Thomas turned into a hit, years before it made a pop culture comeback on shows like Black Mirror and The Umbrella Academy.

But it wasn’t until Nashville that Seely’s voice found its proper stage. With a honky-tonk ache that could cut through steel and lyrics that weren’t afraid to touch nerves, her breakout moment came with “Don’t Touch Me,” written by then-husband Hank Cochran. It won her a Grammy in 1967, just the third ever awarded to a female country artist. That same year, she became a full-fledged Opry member and strolled out onto that hallowed circle in a miniskirt, scandalizing tradition and rewriting it at the same time.

“The relevance of that miniskirt was that I got away with wearing what my choice was,” she once said. “That was a door that I kicked in incessantly to get open.”

And kick it she did.

Seely didn’t just perform at the Opry. She helped rebuild it. She appeared on that stage more times than anyone else in history: 5,397 appearances, to be exact. She was the first woman to host a segment of the Grand Ole Opry, cracking through the old boys’ club with the same style and sass that marked every part of her career. “Did you ever notice how much that smells like discrimination?” she asked when women were barred from hosting. Then she hosted. And then others followed.

She produced albums. Starred on the Porter Wagoner Show (Dolly took her spot after she left). Played in The Best Little Whorehouse in Texas and even made a cameo in Willie Nelson’s Honeysuckle Rose. She survived a brutal car crash in 1977 that shattered her jaw and ribs, but she didn’t miss a beat.

Through it all, Seely kept writing, singing, and showing up. Whether it was duetting with Jack Greene or hosting Sundays with Seely on Willie’s Roadhouse, she was always in the room, always a part of the conversation. She kept showing up even in her final year, recovering from back surgery, emergency abdominal procedures, pneumonia, and eleven days in the ICU. In May, she posted, “Last night, I saw a light at the end of the tunnel. And it was neon, so I knew it was mine.” That line could’ve been the title of one of her songs. Wry, proud, and deeply country.

Her last release came in July 2024, a cover of Dottie West’s “Suffertime,” recorded at RCA Studio B, a full-circle moment in a life spent honoring tradition while bending it to her will.

The Opry will dedicate Saturday night’s show to her. But really, every night at the Grand Ole Opry echoes with Jeannie Seely’s voice. That’s her circle. Her legacy. Her rules.

There are legends, and then there are the women who make legends possible. Jeannie Seely wasn’t just part of country music. She was country music. Bold, bruised, brilliant, and still standing in heels higher than most folks’ expectations.

She didn’t just leave behind a legacy.

She left behind a standard.