He wasn’t in the spotlight, but he damn sure held it steady.

Eugene “Gene” Ward, the man Jeannie Seely lovingly called “The Counselor,” passed away in December 2024 at 92 years old after a battle with cancer. While Jeannie lit up the Grand Ole Opry stage thousands of times, Gene stood just out of frame, rock-solid and quiet, like the kind of man every country song wishes it could bottle. For over 14 years, he was her partner, her champion, and her calm in the chaos of country music life.

But before he ever married “Miss Country Soul,” Gene Ward had already lived a hell of a life.

Born in White Pine, Tennessee, in 1932, Gene came from modest roots. He worked in a dairy and washed dishes to put himself through college, graduating from Lincoln Memorial University in 1956 and earning a law degree from the University of Tennessee in 1959. Not bad for a farm kid from Jefferson County. He went on to serve as general counsel for the Tennessee Public Service Commission and later became Vice President and General Counsel for the Nashville Electric Service. He held that role until retiring in 2011, just before he and Seely made it official.

And yes, before electricity bills and utility boards, Gene was the go-to attorney for some of country music’s rowdiest icons. Webb Pierce. Ernest Tubb. Lefty Frizzell. Faron Young. He handled their contracts and their legal chaos while keeping his own boots clean. The man knew how to handle a room, whether it was full of lawyers or honky-tonk legends.

He met Seely through the Donelson-Hermitage Chamber of Commerce. At first, it was civic meetings and committee talk. Then friendship. And finally, in 2010, it turned into something more. They got married at Nashville’s historic Two Rivers Mansion, surrounded by friends, family, and more than a few country stars. Jeannie often joked that Gene was the only man who could ever truly out-stubborn her, and for once, she seemed happy to lose.

In 2018, Gene fell seriously ill. Doctors said he wouldn’t make it. Jeannie stayed by his side and prayed. Not only did he survive, he came back strong enough to stand beside her as they renewed their vows during a country music cruise. That’s the kind of man Gene Ward was. Quiet. Steady. And tougher than he looked.

In his later years, Gene kept showing up for the things that mattered. Church on Sundays. CMA events with Jeannie. Chamber meetings. And time with his family. He had three children from a previous marriage (Judy, Johnny, and Keven) and a long line of grandkids, great-grandkids, and even great-great-grandkids who called him theirs. Seely became stepmom and “Grandma Jeannie,” a role she embraced with just as much heart as she did her music.

When Gene passed, Seely released a statement that said it all: “My heart is broken now, but I am so grateful for the 15 years I had with Gene. I knew he was a good man when I married him, but as I experienced life with him, I learned he was a really great man.”

And then came the line that only a woman like Seely could deliver.

“He didn’t lose his battle with cancer. He defied it by gaining his wings. The Counselor never lost a case.”

That’s how you remember a man like Eugene Ward. Not just by the titles he held, or the awards, or the courtroom wins. But by the way he showed up, day after day, for the people he loved. The way he held a hand. The way he kept a promise. And the way he made one of country music’s most iconic voices feel like she always had someone in her corner.

Gene Ward didn’t sing the songs.

But he sure as hell helped write the love story.